10 Fast Question to know if your photographer gets your vibe

hey lovely,

let’s be honest—choosing your wedding photographer shouldn’t feel like a blind date where you hope they “just get you.”

because here’s the truth:

the wrong fit = awkward poses, missed moments, and photos you don’t want to frame.

the right fit = effortless connection, real emotion, and photos that make your heart race every time.

so how do you figure that out before you spend a single penny?

you run the £0 stress-test.

this isn’t a contract, a booking fee, or a deep dive consultation.

it’s just 10 powerful questions to ask any photographer—including me —to see if they vibe with your vision, your energy, and your non-negotiable.

10 questions

“what kind of couple do you love working with?”

this reveals their style and whether they light up when they describe people like you.

“can i see a full gallery, not just highlights?”

because the real story is in the in-between moments, not just the hero shots on instagram.

“what’s your approach—posed, candid, or a mix?”

you’ll know instantly if they’ll make you feel like models… or make you feel like you.

“how do you help us feel comfortable in front of the camera?”

if they say “just be yourselves,” and that’s it? red flag. great photographers guide.

“what’s your backup plan for weather, lighting, or gear issues?”

because you need an artist and a pro.

“do you help with location or timeline planning?”

spoiler: a good one says yes. a great one does it before you ask.

“what’s something your couples are always surprised by?”

this tells you what extra value they bring, even if you didn’t think to ask.

“how would you describe your editing style in 3 words?”

bright and airy? bold and cinematic? timeless and true-to-life? see if it matches your vibe.

“what do you wish more couples knew before their shoot?”

this reveals their experience level—and whether they care about educating, not just selling.

“why do you do this?”

because if their eyes don’t sparkle when they answer… keep looking.

why this works

you don’t need to know what lens they use.

you don’t need to decode their pricing (yet).

you just need to know if they see you.

if they get your vision, everything else becomes easier:

  • communication feels smooth
  • planning becomes fun
  • your photos look and feel like you two on your best day